Repurposing Yarn

  
  

Do you remember my first repurposing-post? I think it is time again to see how we can live a greener life, producing more handmade love and less impact on this world, inchaallah.

Today I wanna show you what you can do with old sweaters, woollen scarves, socks and trousers you do not wear any more.

Instead of throwing them away, unpick them and re-use the yarn to knit something new or to weave a beautiful carpet – just as my neighbour MammaAli whom you see doing here a colourful knotted Berber rug.

Happy week, friends!

–Unschooling–Report–05/2010–

   
  
some bird-theme-learning just as last year 
Sometimes I find myself worrying about the learning process of my eldest son BY. I doubt sometimes if the learning environment I offer him at home is giving him enough input and inspiration to grow. He is six now and a quiet well developed boy, subhanallah: he is curious, creative, intelligent, independent and strong, tbarakallah, and he is eager to learn and to explore the world.

Over the last year, since baby was born, our homeschooling was much more an “unschooling” in the very meaning of the word. We didn’t follow any curriculum nor did we do a lot of learning in general. It took a long time for me to establish and adjust a new family rhythm and to get used to care for three kids.
Also I had so much else in my mind, personal stuff and the school project organisation, so that I simply had neither energy nor motivation to provide an encouraging learning atmosphere. Most days I yearned for the evening and some free me-moments to come, mashaallah. I often felt guilty and was worried about BY’s learning achievements.

But looking back now, it seems as if he learned and grew a lot during the last year, alhamdulillah, maybe not as much about reading, writing and maths as before, but he definitely established great social skills and became the big caring brother, subhanallah. I think he needed that time to grow into his new role just as I did.

So I try to take things now a bit easier and to take a more relaxed approach to the whole learning thing, keeping in mind that he still is a little child and we do not have to push him out of his carefree dreamy childhood too early.

I try to remind myself that the whole world and every day life serve already as a great classroom, but my aim for the next months is to put again more energy into conscious unschooling and to provide a richer environment, even if it is simply by more reading aloud to the kids, by going on walks, playing, crafting and sometimes really learning together, inchaallah.

I have two books that are a great source and inspiration and I really recommend them to all (unschooling) moms:
Mary Griffith: ”the unschooling handbook” and Lucy Calkins: “Raising Lifelong Learners”.

How do you organise your (homeschooling) days? Do you follow a rhythm, a curriculum or the mood of your children? – Any good advice especially for moments of boredom?

Happy Friday, friends!

In search for Guidance

  
  

Don’t you wish sometimes, when you feel unsure and in between things, not knowing which direction to go, which decision to make, don’t you wish then to have a magical helping tool that could lead you towards the best?

You know what? There is such tool and there is even a very specific one, the Istikhaara prayer, which could be called the shield and the guide of the believer.
Subhanallah, by praying two raka’ and then reciting the very specific text of that prayer, naming the affair you need to be guided in and putting your trust in Allah, you will be rewarded with His guidance towards the best.

This prayer does not only work before major decisions to make, but also concerning simple mundane and daily things as well.
If you feel still unsure and struggling after having prayed, repeat it up until seven times and then remain patient.
It will not necessarily happen that you will dream about an answer or clearly see big signs on how to continue things. But if you really put your trust in Allah and if you really give the decision into His hands, then He will guide you; He will put peace into your heart and all the steps you undertake afterwards will be easier and the right ones, inchaallah.

Alhamdulillah, I can assure you through my own experience that it works. Just recently I prayed for example to know whether to get some cats as pets or not, which direction to take concerning our projects and also to get clear guidance in my healing way. Subhanallah, I was unsure about all these things and not knowing what to do, but I know now for sure that I do not want pets at the moment, I see that the projects work in smoother ways and I know now which way to take concerning my inner child.

Mashaallah, so whenever it comes to doubts or if you can’t make up your mind, take time to make the Istikhaara prayer to guide you and leave the decision up to Allah.

May Allah help you and respond to your needs, ameen!

Here you find the text of the prayer in English and Arabic transcription. I have imprinted a copy of it and hold it in my hand while praying, reading the Arabic text first and then the English one to better understand what I intended to say.

“O Allah, I ask You to show me what is best, through Your knowledge, and I ask You to empower me, through Your power, and I beg You to grant me Your tremendous favour,
for You have power, while I am without power, and You have knowledge, while I am without knowledge, and You are the One who knows all things invisible.
O Allah, if You know that this undertaking (naming the affair) is in the best interests of my religion, my life in this world, and my life in the hereafter, and can yield successful results in both the short term and the long term, then make it possible for me and make it easy for me, and then bless me in it.
If not, then turn it away from me, and make it easy for me to do well, wherever I may happen to be, and make me content with Your verdict, O Most Merciful of the merciful.’”

“Allahumma inni astakhiru-ka bi-’ilmi-ka wa astaqdiru-ka bi-qudrati-ka wa as’alu-ka min fadli-ka ‘l-’azim fa-inna-ka taqdiru wa la aqdiru wa ta’lamu wa la a’lamu wa Anta ‘Allamu ‘l-ghuyub.
Allahumma in kunta ta’lamu anna hadha ‘l-amra (naming the affair) khairun li fi dini wa dunyaya wa akhirati wa ‘aqibati amri wa ‘ajili-hi wa ajili-h. fa-’qdir-hu li wa yassir-hu li thumma barik li fi-h.
Wa illa fa-’srif-hu ‘an-ni wa yassir liya ‘l-khaira haithu kana ma kuntu wa raddi-ni bi-qada’i-ka ya Arhama ‘r-rahimin.”

For more detailed and quranic based information about the prayer go here: 

http://www.islamqa.com/en/ref/11981/istikhaarah 
http://www.islamqa.com/en/search2/istikhaarah/AllWords/t,q,a 
http://strangerinthisdunya.wordpress.com/2008/06/07/about-istikhaarah-dua 
http://d1.islamhouse.com/data/de/ih_articles/single/de_Istikhara_Gebet.pdf

A Year

    
Our little girl playing at a typical Berber window grille in grandpa’s house

Love is something we can choose, the same way we choose anger or hate or sadness. We CAN choose love. It’s always a choice within us. Let’s begin right now in this moment to choose love. It’s the most powerful healing force there is.
Louise Hay.

Time flies so quick – It’s been a year since she was born, mashaallah: The most beautiful, joyful gift, subhanallah. Her powerful coming into this world was a wonder and so is her whole being, tbarakallah.
Thanks God for the gift of accompany her growing and sharing life with her.

What are you thankful for right now?

Happy weekend friends!

Simply Breakfast

 

Salam alaikoum friends,

I wanted to thank you all for the touching, deep, heartfelt and open responses to my healing-post. It was amazing and a relief to see how many of you are on the same way.
I really hope that we all find ways for a successful healing, to become whole and healthy, may Allah guide us and help us on this difficult path, ameen.
… I am looking forward to share parts of this journey with you amongst all the other things my blog is about.
For today I leave you with an impression of a peaceful Moroccan spring breakfast (Berber bread, olive oil and sweet green tea) and with the announcement that this great yummy photography blog is back: http://simplybreakfast.blogspot.com !!

developing

  
  
  

We have been busy over the last week, developing the school project with our friends from Switzerland. We planned, worked, learned and brainstormed together with the teacher, the students and local kids and we had a blessed, joyful time, subhanallah. I will tell you soon more about all the facts, the news and how things go on, inchaallah.
Until then I send you blessed-Friday-greetings with these snapshots from our intercultural meeting.