Spring Clean

  
  
  

It is going to be this time of the year when the almonds blossom, the fields get green again and I feel the big urge to spring clean our life and living.
Just as Allah cleans the nature with rain, beautifies it with flowers and green grass and clears it up with fresh winds, subhanallah, I feel the need to do so as well with my little spaces. It is once again all about beautifying and creating a blissful home and about implementing new inspiration and fresh ideas.

So I decided to dedicate this new month to “Spring Clean 2010”, inchaallah.
Not only do I want to do a deep cleaning of the whole house, but also purify our bodies and souls. I wanna clean up hidden corners around our home but as well those in my mind. I wanna beautify the rooms but as well beautify my Iman (faith) with some new knowledge. I wanna renew our wardrobes but as well our meal-plan.
I already sat down and thought about all the things that need a clean and a change. I made a list to write down all the ideas for changes around the house and for what to do in every room along with the regular weekly cleaning. I collected ideas for new decoration items, for crafting ideas, fresh wardrobe design and healthier meals…
So here’s a lot to do, inchaallah, and maybe I will give you some updates along this month on how we’re going on with all of it.
But for now, I leave you with a “salamou alaikoum and happy March!” and with some fresh ideas to get inspired:

Some spiritual decoration and design 
How to clean up the kid’s room
Lovely felted boxes in different forms

Daily Miracles

  
  

Typing with one hand isn’t easy, so I send you instead these pictures out of nature – I like their simplicity and they perfectly reflect my inner mood at the moment.

Here’s not much chance to write: baby is teething and wants to be carried all the time and the boys both have a cold and need a lot of cuddling – so no quiet moment and no free minute for me, mashallah…
but there is always a lot to think about and, alhamdulillah, sometimes my thoughts process deeper things while my hands are busy with mundane work and rocking the babes.

“Could you keep your heart in wonder at the daily miracles of your life, your pain would not seem less wondrous than your joy” (Khalil Gibran)

Simply Breakfast and a Reflection

  

Do you remember my series “Simply breakfast and a quote”? It’s been a long time I haven’t posted one… so here you see today’s breakfast: Roibush tea with milk, Berber-bread with butter and “Aisha crème Ipomée”.

Have you ever tasted sweet potato spread? I’ve talked about it already once on my old blog. The best Moroccan jam brand “Aisha” distributes it and it tastes great!

A little bit like a mixture of chestnut-spread and caramel, but more fruity.

If you would like to do it at home, you find a recipe here (in French language).

Another thing that makes me really happy is the design of that delicious roibosch-tea. Have you seen the lovely picture of mother and daughter drinking tea together? Very old-school and very kitschy, but I simply love it…

After my breakfast I am reading at the moment once again Elma Ruth Harder’s book “Concentric Circles”, a great Muslim book on homeschooling and early learning. And here is some reflection out of it for today:

“Do I take time to reflect?
How did I use my time today?
Did I lose or waste any time?
Do I think of my time as a test?
If I am held accountable for how I have spent my minutes today, am I happy with my day?
If the worthwhile moments were collected onto one side of a balance scale, and the unworthwhile moments were placed on the other, which side of the balance would be heavier?
Do I think of my time as a gift?
Do I begin my day with a sense of true celebration, considering it a time for gratitude and joyous expression?
Am I thankful for each new day?”

Wishing you a joyful Sunday with lots of moments to be thankful for! Assalamou alaikoum.

  
 

Knitting on Memories

  
  

It is exactly a year now that my only sibling, my dear little sister died.
Mashaallah, I cannot believe how quick time flies.

There was no single day I didn’t think of her and I still remember so well the night I arrived in Germany to visit her for the first time after seven months, knowing that her cancer already is at a very serious stage.
I arrived late at night and it was already too late to go to the hospital to see her, so my mother said it would be better to come the next morning.
I went to bed and in the middle of the night my father stepped in to tell me that my little sister just died. Mashaallah, Allahu akbar.

It still is very difficult for me to realize this coincidence of having been so close to her yet not having been able to see her alive, mashaallah. But Allah is the Greatest and I know that everything happened as it had to.

The image of her emaciated dead body still accompanies me.
Unfortunately we didn’t have had a very close relationship over the last years and I still have a lot to process, feelings to work on and unspoken words to think about, inchaallah.

When I visited my parents this January, my mother gave me a big straight peace of beautiful grey knit-work. It was the last knitting my sister did during her last weeks alive and she never was able to finish.
So I took the peace in remembrance of her and am now continuing her work, stitch by stitch.
And while I am knitting I am remembering her and the moments we spent together. 
I feel that this peace of handcrafts helps me to make a connection: I think about her fine hands and how they touched the wool and the soft bamboo needles and I feel how the calming rhythm of knitting helps me to process, inchaallah – one row at a time….
May you rest in peace my dear little sister.

10 Things I believe…

  
  

pictures taken on our last weekends walk 

 

- first and above all I believe in Allah and His wonderful religion “Islam” with all its pillars and parts, alhamdulillah.
- I believe in the importance of compassion for the other instead of condemning or judging him.
- I believe in the good in every human being.
- I believe that we always have a choice (at least the choice to look at things in a different way).
- I believe that all we give comes back in a certain way,
so “Do Good and forget about it – it will never be lost”.
- I believe in the importance of a deep parent-child-connection through attachment-parenting and accepting the child as the person he is.
- I believe in the healing effects of nature and that Allah has created plants out there for the cure of all sorts of illnesses, if He wants us to be healed, subhanaallah.
- I believe that spring is already on its way to our valley, subhanallah!
- I believe in the power of the womanly God-given instincts.
- I believe that everything happens in divine destiny and for a good reason, even though we do not understand why some things happen sometimes. 

What do you believe in right now? 

Blessed weekend friends, and thank you so much for your positive reaction on our big project!

  
 

Our big Project – an intercultural dialogue

  
  

pictures taken by our Swiss partners on a visit in our valley 

Over the last years we thought a lot about our kid’s education and about the school situation in our little valley, where many kids suffer from the poor circumstances and the harsh reality of the public system.
A few years ago I felt in love then with the idea of homeschooling/unschooling my kids. I liked the idea that my kids can grow and learn in their own rhythm, that every moment and the whole world would be their classroom, without pressure and without all the negative realities of ordinary schools.
I knew I would have the capacity to be their facilitator and partner on their home-education-journey because I am blessed myself with a well-educated background and had the chance to finish high school and even university, alhamdulillah – something which is very unusual here in the High Atlas Mountains where many people are still illiterate and where most of the kids visit school for only 6 years.

But Allah had bigger plans for us when we met in 2007 those lovely people from a private school in Switzerland. They were a group of school-kids and their teachers whom we guided on a field trip through Morocco. They came from a little school that is a universe of peace and respect, a school with its own rhythm and proper pedagogic way, based on the ideas of Piaget, Freinet, Steiner, Montessori and Wild – It is a school that allows the child to grow on its own pace to become the person he already is deep inside himself. 

When we met these teachers and kids we were immediately impressed by their respectful manners and peaceful personalities. They were so full of positive curiosity towards the world, subhanallah. It was a blessed time we spent together and finally a friendship grew between us and the idea to build such a special school here in Morocco. 

We stayed in contact, collected ideas, wrote long mails, met several times in Switzerland and again in Morocco, we did research together, met locals and built up, little by little, a cooperation and a partnership between us.
The Swiss-kids were so motivated to collect already some money for the first steps of our project and everybody contributed with a lot of joy, effort and knowledge. The last year we did a lot of organisation and put together all the needed papers and documents for the application here in Morocco and are now waiting for a definitive positive response from the government to start our school this autumn, inchaallah. 

Three years ago I would never have imagined that our meeting would lead us so far, mashaallah. And until now I am still unschooling my kids. It seems sometimes very surreal to me that life leads us into such a direction together as a family.
But alhamdulillah, we have the chance, the knowledge and the contacts to establish such a big project. I see myself as an ambassador between the two cultures and religions I am living in and it was clear to me that I have to engage in such a peaceful dialogue that enriches both sides. I think it is our duty to do something that allows a lot of kids here in that rural area to grow in a healthy atmosphere that respects their traditions, their background and faith and to meet in an environment that encourages the joy of learning and the love of seeking knowledge.

So here we are. Our visit in Switzerland last January was not only to push organisation-things forward, but also to create a foundation-network and to look for the financing.
We want to build up a little private school for about 30 kids and a huge public free-time-offer for everybody with workshops, arts and language classes, sports club, a library, etc.
Our aim is to reach as much as kids as possible to give them the chance to grow.
But since most of the people here are very short on money or even poor and will not be able to pay a lot, we will need your prayers and help to realize and to maintain the project.

We are looking for financial support, for sponsorship and material help (even the smallest donation will help). And we are looking as well for a young and motivated Moroccan-Berber-speaking-teacher who wants to join our team. 

If you are interested to support our school-project or if you know someone who could help us, please leave a comment or contact me at  itto.berber@gmail. com 
Thanks so much! I am looking forward to hear from you and will keep you informed here about the project from time to time, inchaalah.   

  
   
pictures taken by us on our visit in Switzerland
 

February Felting

  
  
  

Some pictures of today’s felt-group-meeting with the girls on our terrace, in beautiful warm sunshine and in remembrance of Khadija, one of the girls who died a few weeks ago at the very young age of 18 from a hard winter cold, mashaallah.
« Inna Lillahi oua inna ilaihi rajeoon »

Blissful sunny weekend to you and yours! masalama.

Sweets for the cold Days

 
  

Itto’s Sfenjj (Moroccan Donuts, without eggs)

These cold days, when we spend most of the time inside, thinking and planning the projects ahead, there is always a big need for something sweet and warming in between meals. We stay nearly the whole day in our living- kitchen (in front of the chimney) because it is the most comfortable and the only warm and heated place in our house.
Always a good thing to do then is some bakery, especially these easy and lovely Moroccan donuts, called “sfenjj”.
Together with the kids it is fun and learning in the same time: some maths by counting the ingredients, some geometry by cutting the circles, some arts by decorating with different things… and a lot of housewifery- and baking-ABC as well…

If you wanna make them, you’ll need (for about 25 pieces):

500 g white flour
40 g dry yeast
¼ l warm milk
100 g white sugar
100 g melted butter
Pinch of Salt
Oil to fry
Things to decorate (powder sugar, cinnamon, sweet pearls…)

Mix the flour, yeast, sugar and salt in a large bowl and add warm (not hot!) milk and the melted butter. Work this mixture well with your hands until you get a soft and firm dough that does not stick on your hands anymore. Then cover it and let rest until it became double-sized.
Now take the dough, knead once again and then roll it out flat (about ½ cm high).
Take a glass or something round and cut out circles (about 7cm diameter) and then take a smaller circle (about 2cm wide – I took the opening of a water-bottle) to cut out the middle hole. Keep this little middle-piece of dough to fry as a little ball as well.
Work the whole dough like this.
Now heat up some oil (about 5cm high) in a big frying pan, wait until it is really, really hot and then put the circles and the little pieces of dough in to fry.
That takes about 3 minutes – turn sometimes until both sides are golden.
Take out the donuts, sprinkle them with powder sugar and let cool on a paper.
Work all dough like this.
Now they are ready to enjoy or to decorate with some icing, chocolate or else… yummy, alhamdulillah!!! 

Happy February, friends!